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Carly A. Riordan
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I have been calling myself a Chill Mom™️ since having Jack and now I’m realizing that I’m even chiller with Rory. (Like is birth order really less about sibling order and more about the version of mom you’re born to?) I’ve been just rolling with Rory’s infancy and I’m so much happier. Maybe it’s just that I’m more tired with a toddler too, or know that it’s going to go by so fast, or just have more confidence… probably a combination. I feel less obsessive and less stressed out by the details. I’m “making it” without having to fake it. As an example, today I noticed I hadn’t tracked a single nap- just watching sleepy cues and trying to get to a “good enough” pattern as Rory’s naps consolidate. Is he following a ~perfect~ nap schedule? No. Are we thriving? Frankly, yes!
(If you want to read my original Chill Mom post, comment “chill mom” and l’ll send it to you via DM!)
![I have been calling myself a Chill Mom™️ since having Jack and now I’m realizing that I’m even chiller with Rory. (Like is birth order really less about sibling order and more about the version of mom you’re born to?) I’ve been just rolling with Rory’s infancy and I’m so much happier. Maybe it’s just that I’m more tired with a toddler too, or know that it’s going to go by so fast, or just have more confidence… probably a combination. I feel less obsessive and less stressed out by the details. I’m “making it” without having to fake it. As an example, today I noticed I hadn’t tracked a single nap- just watching sleepy cues and trying to get to a “good enough” pattern as Rory’s naps consolidate. Is he following a ~perfect~ nap schedule? No. Are we thriving? Frankly, yes!
(If you want to read my original Chill Mom post, comment “chill mom” and l’ll send it to you via DM!)](https://carlyriordan.com/wp-content/plugins/instagram-feed-pro/img/placeholder.png)
We came, we saw elephants, we ate ice cream 🐘🦒🦓 @ashleybrooke and I always talk about how we became FAST friends. Somehow we have been right there with each other during some of life’s worst moments… so it’s extra sweet that we now get to celebrate the good ones! Watching our boys play together, a little baby in a stroller, and another baby on the way… it’s everything we dreamed of.
![We came, we saw elephants, we ate ice cream 🐘🦒🦓 @ashleybrooke and I always talk about how we became FAST friends. Somehow we have been right there with each other during some of life’s worst moments… so it’s extra sweet that we now get to celebrate the good ones! Watching our boys play together, a little baby in a stroller, and another baby on the way… it’s everything we dreamed of.](https://carlyriordan.com/wp-content/plugins/instagram-feed-pro/img/placeholder.png)
Somehow yesterday felt like a week, last month was last year, and last year was a decade ago… but then time is simultaneously going by so fast too. The past ten weeks have gone by in a blink! Everyone warns you it goes by fast and they’re not wrong…. The days are long but oh how I wish time would slow down a bit? Or that maybe I could bottle up a tiny bit of these precious boys at every stage so I could revisit them down the road 🤍
![Somehow yesterday felt like a week, last month was last year, and last year was a decade ago… but then time is simultaneously going by so fast too. The past ten weeks have gone by in a blink! Everyone warns you it goes by fast and they’re not wrong…. The days are long but oh how I wish time would slow down a bit? Or that maybe I could bottle up a tiny bit of these precious boys at every stage so I could revisit them down the road 🤍](https://carlyriordan.com/wp-content/plugins/instagram-feed-pro/img/placeholder.png)
I have grown to LOVE baby wearing. Not only do I think it’s such a nice and cozy way to bond with baby, it’s also incredibly practical, especially when you have a toddler to keep up with too! The @wildbird aerial carrier was a treat for myself- and I’m so obsessed with it. 👶🏼 Leave a comment “wildbird” and I’ll DM you the color I have as well as my personal review of it (including some troubleshooting tips).
Some top level things I like;
- it’s easy to put on!
- it’s so, so comfortable (for me AND baby!)
- the little flap is seamless and provides extra support while baby naps and privacy when we need/want it
![I have grown to LOVE baby wearing. Not only do I think it’s such a nice and cozy way to bond with baby, it’s also incredibly practical, especially when you have a toddler to keep up with too! The @wildbird aerial carrier was a treat for myself- and I’m so obsessed with it. 👶🏼 Leave a comment “wildbird” and I’ll DM you the color I have as well as my personal review of it (including some troubleshooting tips).
Some top level things I like;
- it’s easy to put on!
- it’s so, so comfortable (for me AND baby!)
- the little flap is seamless and provides extra support while baby naps and privacy when we need/want it](https://carlyriordan.com/wp-content/plugins/instagram-feed-pro/img/placeholder.png)
This affordable rechargeable LED lamp is cute and then made even cuter with this wicker lampshade! 💡✨ No cords needed- just charge and place wherever you want. (Will be extra perfect for dining outdoors this summer!) 💫 Comment “lamp” and I’ll send you links to the LED lamp ($38 for a pair!) and the lampshade (available in a few styles- including a darling blue).
![This affordable rechargeable LED lamp is cute and then made even cuter with this wicker lampshade! 💡✨ No cords needed- just charge and place wherever you want. (Will be extra perfect for dining outdoors this summer!) 💫 Comment “lamp” and I’ll send you links to the LED lamp ($38 for a pair!) and the lampshade (available in a few styles- including a darling blue).](https://carlyriordan.com/wp-content/plugins/instagram-feed-pro/img/placeholder.png)
Not really in the mood to be in photos right now, but I keep telling myself I’ll want to look back on these moments and remember them. (Right?!) when I look at these photos in 10, 20, 30 years…
I hope I remember Jack “rescuing” Rory from a windy tent, not how I stood in front of my closet with tears in my eyes.
I hope I remember watching Jack roll down hills and play hop scotch and scoot down the sidewalk with his besties, not that I caught a glimpse of my reflection and didn’t recognize myself.
I hope I remember sitting outside with my friend happily watching our kids play (while watching the minutes until bedtime tick by), and not that I spent too much time zooming in and examining every new wrinkle on my face.
I hope I remember the pure joy of these early warm days with my little family whom I love so much 🤍
![Not really in the mood to be in photos right now, but I keep telling myself I’ll want to look back on these moments and remember them. (Right?!) when I look at these photos in 10, 20, 30 years…
I hope I remember Jack “rescuing” Rory from a windy tent, not how I stood in front of my closet with tears in my eyes.
I hope I remember watching Jack roll down hills and play hop scotch and scoot down the sidewalk with his besties, not that I caught a glimpse of my reflection and didn’t recognize myself.
I hope I remember sitting outside with my friend happily watching our kids play (while watching the minutes until bedtime tick by), and not that I spent too much time zooming in and examining every new wrinkle on my face.
I hope I remember the pure joy of these early warm days with my little family whom I love so much 🤍](https://carlyriordan.com/wp-content/plugins/instagram-feed-pro/img/placeholder.png)
The weather is warming up and I’m feeling slightly more comfortable in my skin every day ☀️ Here’s what I wore last week as a mom of two. I have a two and a half year old toddler and a two month old so I need outfits I feel good in, can chase a little guy around in, AND that I can breastfeed easily while wearing. 🔗 Leave a comment with “OUTFITS” to get links to every outfit I wore!
![The weather is warming up and I’m feeling slightly more comfortable in my skin every day ☀️ Here’s what I wore last week as a mom of two. I have a two and a half year old toddler and a two month old so I need outfits I feel good in, can chase a little guy around in, AND that I can breastfeed easily while wearing. 🔗 Leave a comment with “OUTFITS” to get links to every outfit I wore!](https://carlyriordan.com/wp-content/plugins/instagram-feed-pro/img/placeholder.png)
I am always on the lookout for cute, comfortable loafers but have yet to find any that I love! Thanks for reminding me that I need to continue my search for the perfect pair =)
SHF
thechroniclesofs.blogspot.com
I've actually been thinking about getting myself a pair of loafers, but I haven't really seen anything I loved. I do like those Eastland ones though, and I know a store right near me sells that brand. I'll definitely be checking them out!
Hannah
WholeHeartedlyHannah.blogspot.com
I've been wanting a pair of burgundy Bass loafers for the longest time! I think they're so classic and versatile.
My mom just showed me those Tory Burch ones the other day! I'm hoping to get my hands on a pair this fall!
I love loafers so cute and chic!
Cute cute! I just got a pair of gold ones from F21… definitely got the quality I paid for, but it's not like I can wear gold loafers every day so I'm ok with that 🙂
Love the Tory Burch ones!!
I actually really want a pair of heeled loafers!!
See: http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/sam-edelman-truman-pump/3167984?origin=PredictiveSearch&resultback=598
Just saw someone wearing these with skinny jeans and a silk blouse yesterday– SO CUTE!!
I have some classic cole haans. In my opinion, the best you can get!
I've been undecided about loafers for a while. Thanks for posting about them!
I seriously need a new pair; my Bass's are beat! Adore those Tory Burch's!
I'm more of a driving shoe girl. I like those little rubber dots 😉
Actually, given my small frame, I regularly investigate female versions of male staples. Even if I get a men's shoe in my size, it is usually a bit too… bulky, and can look… very chunky on my feet. About half the shoes in my closet are actually female versions of a male shoe. Inluding one pair of Sperry's.
I've seriously been considering picking up the female versions of the Bass dirty bucks for the same reason. I always look at female loafers, and as long as the heel is low enough, and the tongue is high enough, it'll look right given my tall but thin frame.
I think female oxfords with pointed toe is the best alternative if the maleness staples don't look too good on your feet 🙂
I love love LOVE loafers! I just bought a pair of brown ones from Cole Haan in June. They're such great quality, and I do not think I've ever worn a more comfortable pair of shoes! So glad you're posting about loafers!
http://www.colehaan.com/colehaan/catalog/product.jsp?sizeDescription=&catId=100&productId=191594&productGroup=351961&pwpHash=shop,pwp,c-100/f-10001%2B70016%2B4294966276/ipp-40/pn-1&scrX=0&scrY=378
I love my loafers, but I feel a bit like they're my go to "lazy shoe." But hey, at least I've managed to replace the beat up converse with something a bit more classy looking.
I was doing a search on the comfort of Tory burch loafers and this blog came up in my search. I bought the TB loafers from this review. You are right. Comfortable, versatile , and very preppy. Thanks for all your reviews. This was helpful.